You know what’s actually become more annoying than people’s New Years resolutions, the people who hate people who come up with new years resolutions. Contrarians in true contrarian fashion have always feel the need to stand on their soapbox and remind everyone that nothing’s changed but the year, that there’s nothing you can aspire to change in 2014 you couldn’t have done June 7th. Ninja duh. Inspiration can come from anywhere, the next self made millionaire probably just got his motivation from a song. You know what really inspired me to lose weight, seeing a guy on the train shaped like the number 4. Whether it’s a new year, new week, new haircut, as long as the drive is there, who gives a damn. Progression has become something to be ashamed of, only on the internet. Nothing wrong with trying, if at first you don’t succeed dust yourself off and try again and shit.
Anyway tho, as I close the book on my first full calendar year of blogging (Spoiler Alert, this is going to be my last post of the year, Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanzaa, Happy Fesitvus, Happy New Years) I can’t help but think what awaits me in 2014. 2014 just sounds futuristic as hell, where the hell is my hoverboard yo. So contrarian smontrarian, for 2014 we need a resolution, or 20.
–Thank Care Later Was the Same I can say the first major change for SFW2k14 is I’m just really tired of talking about myself. Looking back, I never realized how personal I got, I guess ranting about relationships and lacks thereof is low hanging fruit, and I’ll leave that to Drake. Also, I need to work on communicating better, and not hiding behind Stan and passive aggressive tweets.
–New Look? I’m a really novice web designer and really broke to pay someone to do it, after all it’s just a free web-hosted blog…
–So Graduate from WordPress to an actual webhost? Eh, maybe.
–How Bout that Novel you was working on? After a year of reading struggle novels on Amazon Prime (one book the author misspelled her protagonist name 3 times and I quit), I really think I can write a novel now. I did briefly try NaNoWriMo but between football season, a full time job and being a fake socialite I just ain’t have time for that
–No PromoTo some it seems bass ackwards to have 4000 followers via instagram/facebook/twitter and still refuse to promote by blog, but I like keeping my brands separate artistic/bougie/ratchet, respectively. However, I will try to be a little less incognegro, guest posts and alldat, so if you have space on your blog “can I come over” (yes that makes 3 Aaliyah references)
That’s a fairly easy doable list, as for myself I’m already awesome I mean sure I could travel more, swear less, lose about 30 more lbs, spend more time with friends and family, figure out what I wanna be when I grow up, stop wasting time on women I don’t want to commit to, be more patient, learn how to code, network more, invest time and money more wisely, forgive people, pray more, be less self conscious, stop being so introverted, surround myself with better people, don’t be afraid to love, laugh more, buy a PS4, stop saying the n word, and get back in school but besides that, there isn’t a single thing to change.