Feel like this post is probably going to rub people the wrong way…..Sorry.
So on one of my rare visits to Facebook, I see a friend posts a video to Britney Spears new video, with the title “Britney’s back…BOW DOWN BITCHES”. So I see some Beyonce fans not take to kindly to that and they respond on the status. The feed gets really heated and I eat my popcorn and scroll. I actually had popcorn, what were the odds? I text the friend “I warned you about the swarm of them killa Beys lol”. She turns on me, “don’t you start defending that shoplifters belly having ass bitch”. Me and her have had this debate in the past, I’m not necessarily a Beyonce stan, hell a fan even, but speaking talent wise Britney doesn’t even hold a candle. When me and her had those back and forths it was always friendly fire, no love lost. Although I was right, I knew to leave it alone after a while. Besides, you don’t win with stans. Ever. They turn up their emotions to levels unknown and I’m just not prepared to go to that level for a celebrity crush, that’s how you end up with grays in your beard and receding hairlines. Stans are something else, yo.
I’m a passionate guy, but I can’t say I stan for anything. Stans are wired differently, I’m more of a spirited debater who comes armed with facts. I’m a huge Kanye West fan, I’ll defend any album in his catalog but I’m not going to defend leather skirts and temper tanturms because high fashion won’t let him be great. I think Tom Brady is the best QB in football ( > Peyton) but he underthrew Wes Welker in the Super Bowl. Of course, even said debates would have to be brought up to me, I’m not searching Twitter and Youtube for opposite opinions just to argue, I like what I like, I think what I think, you’re free to be wrong on your own. I’m not a missionary.
Those are probably the worst stans, the ones who try to convert you on some Jehovah Twitnesses steez. The perfect example are Scandal stans, Standals, Gladiators or whatever else they called who swear Olivia is the pope. “Dessiner” suggested I watch, I was like “..nah.” she welped and we moved on. That’s why she’s awesome”. A friend from work made same inquiry, it became a long drawn out conversation that went from me not finding a TV show appealing to being a man who cant support a show that has a woman lead, interracial couple, and that I can’t keep up with what I personally see is a very dumbed down “political” storyline. K.
Stans are loyal, devoted, forgiving, you’d think they’d be perfect mates, right? If she can forgive Chris Brown and pretend he can rap, there’s hope for the common man right? Noap. Stans are also irrational, overly emotional, and clearly possessive. Most of the people I know who stan male or female are single and fill that void with *drumroll* stanning in the first place. There’s nothing wrong with enjoying things, but there’s something isnt right with investing time and energy into something that isn’t truly yours. Allow me to correct myself, I stan for Stan. My writing, my art, my brand, my career…I will defend any post to the death (okay i’m lying some of these are….w.e). If stans put as much energy in themselves as they do defending Drake’s wack ass album, who knows where they’d be.